actually no, generalize thatit should be illegal to question somebody neurodivergent on any behaviour that is not causing harm (like, actual, real harm, not just "this is a bit weird", not "social harm") to themselves or those around them
the two ways a computer should be are either an instrument where it can understand what it is doing and what is going on, or an appliance where it doesn't ever have to understand what it is doing and what is going on in order to be able to use it effectivelyit sucks that basically every computer is annoyingly in between these
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